Comedian Emma Willmann gets refreshingly honest about the fears, failures, missed opportunities, and persistence behind a life in stand-up during her appearance on The Stand NYC’s 10 for 10, now streaming on YouTube.
“Just be yourself.” “You’re funny.” “It’ll be fine.”
According to Willmann, none of it helps.
During the conversation, Willmann breaks down the real anatomy of stage fear and the particular kind of dread that can hit comedians before stepping in front of an audience. She explains why hosting can sometimes feel even more nerve-wracking than performing a regular set and why the well-meaning reassurance of friends often does little once anxiety takes over.
The episode also finds Willmann revisiting a few memorable “ones that got away” from her career, including blowing off Ali Wong before a bus trip to Boston and brushing off the creator of Girls after Willmann had auditioned for the series an incredible 19 times.
Willmann also reflects on growing up in Maine and the long, frustrating process of establishing herself in the New York comedy scene. She recalls the years-long grind of trying to get “passed” at The Stand, offering viewers a glimpse into the perseverance required to earn opportunities at one of the city’s most recognizable comedy clubs.
The conversation takes a more personal turn as Willmann remembers experiencing a panic attack at South by Southwest during an especially difficult period in her life, shortly after her fiancé kicked her out. It’s another example of the unpredictable reality behind a comedy career where personal turmoil and professional expectations can collide without warning.
Known for her quick wit, energetic delivery, and candid storytelling, Willmann has built a career by turning uncomfortable experiences into comedy. Her 10 for 10 appearance continues that approach, pulling back the curtain on the insecurity and uncertainty that can remain even after years of performing.
Funny, vulnerable, and unapologetically honest, Emma Willmann’s conversation on 10 for 10 is a reminder that becoming comfortable onstage doesn’t necessarily mean the fear disappears — sometimes you just learn how to perform through it.
Emma Willmann’s episode of 10 for 10 from The Stand NYC is streaming now on YouTube.
